in response to davit t's what do we talk about... love

well i see love in different ways, for example love of different people, family in comparison to Friends. love toward every person is always different. i don't think destructive love is actual love it seems to be more of a escape. Love in that situation seems to be an excuse, an excuse for their personal insecurities. what i don't understand is why terri would feel that kind of love is real, i would think it has to do with the image she had of him before he started beating him and is still in love with that idea of him. Love being part of the honeymoon phase is more like they have not felt the difficulties in marriage i honestly think that has nothing to do with love. love seems to expand and evolve as time goes by not diminish. i think they are talking about the difficulties u face in marriage. The fact that all these people keep remarrying is their way for them to fill in the void in their lives. the void they feel will be filled with love, for that reason i believe people today have so much trouble with marraige is they jump into it before they actually find real love